My Visit to the NC Museum of Art

Before the realities of what is COVID-19 hit our country, I was beginning to get to know my new home here in North Carolina. One of my first and favorite places I’ve visited was the North Carolina Museum of Art. My experience was nothing less than tranquil and inspiring. Stretching over 164 acres, NCMA is the largest museum park in the country. Upon entering the museum, the first thing that caught my attention was the Iris Restaurant. The outdoors come alive inside the gallery with a beautiful display of branches that swirl into a magnificent structure.

“Truly Grateful”

My first stop was at the modern and contemporary gallery, which is where I found “Truly Grateful” by fellow North Carolinian, Beverly McIver. Gazing at the canvas, I believed that McIver was able to find great joy and strength despite the sadness we all go through in life. With each patchy stroke I continued to see elements of light amid a heaviness that connect to form a deeply moving piece of art.


“Truly Grateful” made me think of what I’m grateful for, and a newfound respect for my inner voice comes to mind. As a woman, I think we’re often socialized to just do as we’re told. I can think of times where I’ve pushed down how I truly felt in order to spare someone’s feelings and protect the relationship. What I’ve learned is that verbally setting boundaries and speaking my truth is a greater act of love than keeping quiet. I’m learning not to second guess myself, even when I’m feeling unsure of the outcome after sharing my truth. I’ve found that it’s often that voice inside that’s the very thing guiding me on the right path.


So, after leaving the museum I was intrigued and wanted to know more about the thought-provoking artist Beverly McIver. My online search led me to McIver’s documentary “Raising Renee”. The film gave me a glimpse into the life of one of America’s greatest artists and her experiences with family, race, and her sister’s mental disability. McIver is courageous enough to expose the things she cherishes most to the world, not only through this film but also through her art. She allows us to see how she sees the world, which is filled with both heartbreak and a lot of love.

Well, that was a memory I wanted to share with hopes that we’re able to heal from the devastations of the current pandemic. I hope you’re staying safe during such a difficult time and remembering to hold on tight to those you love and check on people in your contact list. You never know who needs to hear a friendly voice.